About

Crafting Unique Ceremonies with Care and Spirit

Hello, I’m Paul Alland, The Alternative Celebrant.
I’m based in Hampshire and qualified as a professional celebrant in 2022, proudly achieving a distinction in my training. Since then, I’ve had the privilege of conducting many funerals and weddings, each one unique, personal, and deeply meaningful.

As a warm, compassionate, and empathic celebrant, I believe every ceremony should tell a story – one that truly reflects the people at its heart. My role is to listen, understand, and bring your vision to life, whether that means honouring a loved one’s journey or celebrating a union in a way that feels authentic and spiritual.

While I cover all types of funerals, my passion also lies in alternative weddings – from Gothic style to Handfasting ceremonies that embrace individuality, creativity, and love in all its beautiful forms. Each service I create is bespoke and carefully tailored, weaving together words, symbolism, and atmosphere to capture the essence of who you are.

Whether you’re saying goodbye, saying “I do,” or marking another milestone, I’ll ensure your ceremony is personal, heartfelt, and unforgettable.



If you would like to find out more, head to the Contact page.